{"id":1032,"date":"2026-02-27T17:17:37","date_gmt":"2026-02-27T16:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/?p=1032"},"modified":"2026-02-28T17:20:50","modified_gmt":"2026-02-28T16:20:50","slug":"violence-and-couples-therapy-an-article-by-barbara-slawik-published-in-the-journal-niebieska-linia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/blog\/2026\/02\/27\/violence-and-couples-therapy-an-article-by-barbara-slawik-published-in-the-journal-niebieska-linia\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cViolence and Couples Therapy\u201d \u2013 an article by Barbara S\u0142awik published in the journal \u201cNiebieska Linia\u201d \ud83d\udcd6\ud83d\udcda"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"dslc-main\">\r\n\t\t<div  class=\"dslc-modules-section \" style=\"padding-bottom:220px;padding-top:220px;background-image:url(https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/10\/Depositphotos_90398246_xl-2015.jpg);background-repeat:no-repeat;background-position:center bottom;background-attachment:fixed;background-size:cover;\" data-section-id=\"9ed2cf25247\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"dslc-modules-section-wrapper dslc-clearfix\"><div class=\"dslc-modules-area dslc-col dslc-12-col dslc-last-col dslc-valign- \" data-size=\"12\" data-valign=\"\">\r\n\t\t<div id=\"dslc-module-93b91371c1c\" class=\"dslc-module-front dslc-module-DSLC_TP_Title dslc-in-viewport-check dslc-in-viewport-anim-none  dslc-col dslc-12-col dslc-last-col  dslc-module-handle-like-regular \" data-module-id=\"93b91371c1c\" data-module=\"DSLC_TP_Title\" data-dslc-module-size=\"12\" data-dslc-anim=\"none\" data-dslc-anim-delay=\"\" data-dslc-anim-duration=\"650\"  data-dslc-anim-easing=\"ease\" data-dslc-preset=\"none\" >\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"dslc-tp-title\"><h1>\u201cViolence and Couples Therapy\u201d \u2013 an article by Barbara S\u0142awik published in the journal \u201cNiebieska Linia\u201d \ud83d\udcd6\ud83d\udcda<\/h1><\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><!-- .dslc-module -->\r\n\t\t<\/div><\/div><\/div>\r\n\t\t<div  class=\"dslc-modules-section \" style=\"\" data-section-id=\"6a337436177\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"dslc-modules-section-wrapper dslc-clearfix\"><div class=\"dslc-modules-area dslc-col dslc-2-col dslc-first-col dslc-valign- \" data-size=\"2\" data-valign=\"\"><\/div><div class=\"dslc-modules-area dslc-col dslc-8-col  dslc-valign- \" data-size=\"8\" data-valign=\"\">\r\n\t\t<div id=\"dslc-module-32c0ebab6fe\" class=\"dslc-module-front dslc-module-DSLC_TP_Thumbnail dslc-in-viewport-check dslc-in-viewport-anim-none  dslc-col dslc-12-col dslc-last-col  dslc-module-handle-like-regular \" data-module-id=\"32c0ebab6fe\" data-module=\"DSLC_TP_Thumbnail\" data-dslc-module-size=\"12\" data-dslc-anim=\"none\" data-dslc-anim-delay=\"\" data-dslc-anim-duration=\"650\"  data-dslc-anim-easing=\"ease\" data-dslc-preset=\"none\" >\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"dslc-tp-thumbnail\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img width=\"1500\" height=\"740\" src=\"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Zrzut-ekranu-2026-02-28-o-12.56.11.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" title=\"Zrzut ekranu 2026-02-28 o 12.56.11\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Zrzut-ekranu-2026-02-28-o-12.56.11.png 1500w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Zrzut-ekranu-2026-02-28-o-12.56.11-300x148.png 300w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Zrzut-ekranu-2026-02-28-o-12.56.11-1024x505.png 1024w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Zrzut-ekranu-2026-02-28-o-12.56.11-768x379.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1500px) 100vw, 1500px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\r\n\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><!-- .dslc-module -->\r\n\t\t\r\n\t\t<div id=\"dslc-module-79663b25bbe\" class=\"dslc-module-front dslc-module-DSLC_TP_Content dslc-in-viewport-check dslc-in-viewport-anim-none  dslc-col dslc-12-col dslc-last-col  dslc-module-handle-like-regular \" data-module-id=\"79663b25bbe\" data-module=\"DSLC_TP_Content\" data-dslc-module-size=\"12\" data-dslc-anim=\"none\" data-dslc-anim-delay=\"\" data-dslc-anim-duration=\"650\"  data-dslc-anim-easing=\"ease\" data-dslc-preset=\"none\" >\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t<div class=\"dslc-tp-content\"><div id=\"dslc-theme-content\"><div id=\"dslc-theme-content-inner\">\n<p><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-white-color\">.<\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udce2 We are pleased to share that the latest issue of the bimonthly journal\u00a0<strong>\u201cNiebieska Linia<\/strong><em>\u201d<\/em>\u00a0(1\/162\/2026) features <strong>an article by Barbara S\u0142awik titled\u00a0\u201c<em>Violence and Couples Therapy. Working within the EFT Model<\/em>\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0\ud83d\udcd8 The author was invited to write this piece in the autumn of 2025 by the Editor-in-Chief of the journal, Katarzyna Mi\u0142kowska. We are glad that, despite the challenges and numerous uncertainties \u2013 described by the Editor-in-Chief in her introduction \u2013 currently faced by organizations working to prevent domestic violence (largely related to the funding of their activities), the article has now been published \u2728<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This publication addresses a topic that evokes strong emotions among professionals: whether, and under what circumstances, couples therapy is possible in the context of violence. For this reason, Barbara S\u0142awik and Aneta Bukowska were invited in November to speak at a regular meeting of the Social Dialogue Sectoral Commission for the Prevention of Domestic Violence (<a href=\"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/blog\/2025\/11\/17\/we-are-continuing-an-important-dialogue-between-emotionally-focused-therapy-and-domestic-violence-prevention-institutions-%f0%9f%92%ac%f0%9f%92%99\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">HERE<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The article explains that not all violence in relationships is the same. A key distinction is made between\u00a0intimate terrorism\u00a0\u2013 which excludes couples therapy \u2013 and\u00a0situational couple violence, which arises from escalating conflicts and difficulties with emotional regulation. It is in the latter case \u2013 provided specific safety conditions are met \u2013 that Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) can become a pathway to interrupting the destructive cycle and rebuilding a secure emotional bond \ud83e\udd1d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The text is intended both for therapists interested in working with couples and for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the relational roots of intimate partner violence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcd6 Read the article online here:<br>\ud83d\udd17\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.niebieskalinia.pl\/czasopismo\/biezacy-numer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.niebieskalinia.pl\/czasopismo\/biezacy-numer<br><\/a><br>\ud83d\udcf2 Share the news!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Cale-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1035\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Cale-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Cale-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Cale-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Cale-1536x2048.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Cale-scaled.jpeg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1530\" height=\"2048\" src=\"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/page1.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1036\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/page1.jpeg 1530w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/page1-224x300.jpeg 224w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/page1-765x1024.jpeg 765w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/page1-768x1028.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/page1-1148x1536.jpeg 1148w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1530px) 100vw, 1530px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>The article comes at a particularly meaningful moment. Those interested in the topic can now pre-order the Polish-language edition of a book devoted to working with violence in couples therapy within the EFT model, written by Barbara S\u0142awik\u2019s Belgian teachers \u2013 Lieven Migerode and Jeff Slotmaeckers \ud83d\udcd6<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The book has been published by Oficyna Zwi\u0105zek Otwarty \/ OZO under the patronage of the Polish EFT Association \u2013 <a href=\"https:\/\/oficynazwiazekotwarty.pl\/?fbclid=IwY2xjawQPuXtleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETFYOEpFMVl5aVIyVW5ZdVYzc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHlpiJBsLiqfIcwyv75quVld0MisUrgFjDw-ckigEcnLVffQrUwXMD_evdKhx_aem_Wr6-9SiEJ4vyyNaye0HTGQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">HERE<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"881\" src=\"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Jeff-i-Lieven-1-1024x881.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1038\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Jeff-i-Lieven-1-1024x881.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Jeff-i-Lieven-1-300x258.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Jeff-i-Lieven-1-768x660.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Jeff-i-Lieven-1.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><!-- .dslc-module -->\r\n\t\t<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><input type=\"hidden\" id=\"dslca-post-data-thumb\" value=\"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/Zrzut-ekranu-2026-02-28-o-12.56.11.png\" \/>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cViolence and Couples Therapy\u201d \u2013 an article by Barbara S\u0142awik published in the journal \u201cNiebieska Linia\u201d \ud83d\udcd6\ud83d\udcda . \ud83d\udce2 We are pleased to share that the latest issue of the bimonthly journal\u00a0\u201cNiebieska Linia\u201d\u00a0(1\/162\/2026) features an article by Barbara S\u0142awik titled\u00a0\u201cViolence and Couples Therapy. 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