{"id":1104,"date":"2026-05-17T18:29:05","date_gmt":"2026-05-17T16:29:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/?p=1104"},"modified":"2026-05-17T18:29:07","modified_gmt":"2026-05-17T16:29:07","slug":"a-working-weekend-with-the-students-%f0%9f%91%a9%f0%9f%8e%93%f0%9f%91%a8%f0%9f%8e%93%f0%9f%a7%91%f0%9f%8e%93-of-the-dialog-school-of-psychotherapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mentalia.pl\/english\/blog\/2026\/05\/17\/a-working-weekend-with-the-students-%f0%9f%91%a9%f0%9f%8e%93%f0%9f%91%a8%f0%9f%8e%93%f0%9f%a7%91%f0%9f%8e%93-of-the-dialog-school-of-psychotherapy\/","title":{"rendered":"A working weekend with the students \ud83d\udc69\u200d\ud83c\udf93\ud83d\udc68\u200d\ud83c\udf93\ud83e\uddd1\u200d\ud83c\udf93 of the Dialog School of Psychotherapy."},"content":{"rendered":"
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I’ve just wrapped up an intensive, two-day module (May 16-17, 2026) as part of the Annual Couples Therapy Training Program at the Dialog School of Psychotherapy. It was an enormous pleasure to lead the module\u00a0“Personality Development and Its Impact on Romantic Relationships”<\/em>\u00a0– 16 hours of clinical workshop with a group of students who are growing their skills in working with couples. \ud83d\udc99<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It was a weekend of working at full throttle – both head and heart. Over the two days we talked about how early experiences shape adult relationships, how partners’ bodies respond to threat and connection, and what we, as therapists, can do with all of this in the consulting room. \ud83e\udde0\ud83d\udc9e<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\ud83d\udd38 What we went through together<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The weekend was designed so that theory met clinical practice right away. Step by step, we explored:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\ud83e\uddec the neurobiology of emotion in relationships – the threat system vs. the attachment system, regulation and dysregulation, co-regulation in couples <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\ud83e\udea2 attachment theory – attachment styles, from classical theories to contemporary dynamic models, and their consequences for adult relationships <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\ud83e\ude9e mentalization – how to recognize non-mentalizing modes and how to develop mentalization in partners <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\ud83d\udc97 EFT – Emotionally Focused Therapy – relational cycles and experiential work with emotion in couples<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We worked on clinical cases, analyzed session recordings, and practiced interventions through role-play. \ud83c\udfad I really love that moment when something starts to flow through the group: “oh, now I see this couple I’ve been working with for a while completely differently.”<\/em> \u2728<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\ud83d\udd38 What moves me about this work<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What I love most about leading trainings is the moment when I see theory stop being abstract and start being a tool. \ud83d\udee0\ufe0f When someone says:\u00a0“I realized today that my patient isn’t withdrawing out of anger – he’s freezing,”<\/em>\u00a0or when another notices that until now they had been trying to teach a couple communication before their nervous systems were even able to learn – I know that what we’re doing makes sense. \ud83c\udf31<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Working with couples demands a very particular kind of presence from the therapist – on one hand tender and structural, on the other close to emotion and attentive to process. \ud83e\udded This is built over years of practice and supervision, but the foundation is laid right here – during weekends like this one, where you can make a mistake, pause, ask, and try again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\ud83d\udd38 Thank you \ud83d\ude4f<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thank you to the group for your engagement, openness, and courage in working with your own examples. \ud83d\udcaa Thank you to the Dialog School of Psychotherapy for the invitation, and for creating a space where therapists learn to work with couples in a way that is solid, ethical, and grounded in current knowledge. \ud83d\udcda<\/p>\n\n\n\n

See you at the next module – and in the meantime, I’m rooting for your work in the consulting room. \ud83e\udd1e\ud83d\udc99<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Barbara S\u0142awik<\/em> \ud83c\udf3f<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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